​​​​​​​The Blueprint Experience 

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  In just 5 days, discover the pattern that's been shaping your love life ​​​and learn how to heal it at the root.
  

 ​​​​​​​The Blueprint Experience 

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  In just 5 days, discover the pattern that's been shaping your love life
and learn how to heal it at the root.  

Most people spend decades trying to stop their love lives from playing out in the same repetitive loops...

​​​​​​​And they fail because they're trying to solve with their mind something that lives in their body.​​​​​​​

Your relational patterns operate in your nervous system — shaped before you even had words to describe them and unconsciously running in the background of your most intimate moments. They sabotage the relationships that matter most to protect you from things you're not even fully aware you're afraid of.

And until you meet them at that level, they will continue operating.

In The 5-Day Blueprint Experience we'll work together to get beneath the surface and touch what's truly driving you at the core of your intimate relationships.

In just 5 days, you'll create a living map of your unique pattern and learn how to break it for good.​​​​​​​

Daily Insight Sessions

Join Shane for a personalized exploration of your unique Relational Blueprint. Drop below the surface to uncover the core relational framework operating in your nervous system. Each session takes you deeper into your inner-world as you move through the Immersion.

Write Your Blueprint Map

You'll build something genuinely yours — creating a living document that captures your unique pattern, the way your nervous system responds to relational stress, and the hidden structure that's been keeping the pattern in place without you realizing it. 

A Private Community Space

Healing relational wounds doesn't happen in isolation — it happens in relationship. Inside the private community you'll connect with like-minded people in a shared journey. Experience what it feels like to be genuinely held as you encounter some of the most important work of your life.
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Beginning
​​​​​​​Monday,
September 21st

Available for all time zones!
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Limited Availability 

Max Capacity is 150 people. Secure your spot now!  

Recordings Available for all time zones!

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★★★★★

I've been impressed with the insight and generosity of Shane in this experience. As someone who is fairly well versed in coaching tools and subconscious and parts work this is a comprehensive and helpful course utilizing a broad range of techniques . Shane speaks from the heart and you can see his soul purpose is embedded throughout.
Katherine

★★★★★

The Blueprint Experience has exceeded my expectations. It's structured to move very naturally throughout the days and the material continues to build upon itself. The experience  has given me so much food for thought and has made me feel hopeful and optimistic for the type of healing that's available to me.
Steph

★★★★★

Shane's level of expertise and how he not only embodies the work but also, how he articulates the work is by far the most comprehensive and powerful experience I've had. His level of empathy, compassion, and awareness is a true testament to the healing journey that is possible for humans to create a conscious and inspired love life.
Monica
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Day 1: Meet Your Blueprint

First, we name your Relational Blueprint and map the foundation of how it's expressing itself in your life. By the end of day one you will know its origin story, the relational pattern it creates, the hidden pull that keeps you addicted to it, and you'll begin working with a somatic practice to experience how it's living in your body.
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Day 2: The Wound Underneath

Your relational blueprint is a response to something that happened before you had the words to name it. In day two, we explore the four core relational wounds and allow you to feel which are active in you. You'll discover how your blueprint is an intelligent adaptation to experiences that shaped you before you had any choice in the matter.
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Day 3: The Stress Response

When you feel threatened in a relationship, your blueprint takes over. That's why Day 3  works with what's happening in the body. We name the four foundational stress responses and identify which you default to under threat. By the end, you'll know exactly how your pattern plays out in the critical moments and connect with what that feels like from the inside. 
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Day 4: The Somatic Experience

Then we drop the teaching and go right into direct experience. Day 4 is about feeling what your blueprint is doing inside your body and learning to sit with the activation of it. This creates an expansion in your nervous system and increases the capacity for what you can hold, which is the secret to being able to hold more love.

Day 5: The Completion

On the last day, we uncover the hidden trap the keeps the pattern in place. You'll name the secret psychological reward you get every time you fall into the pattern and shine a light on exactly what's keeping you from breaking it. You'll complete the program with the most detailed map of your inner world you've ever had and the keys to breaking every limitation that keeps love out of your life. 
BEGINNING MONDAY

September 21st

Lessons available for all time zones! 
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Hosted by Shane Kohler

The Relational Blueprint Architect

Shane Kohler is the Creator of The Living Relationship, host of The Conscious Love Show Podcast, and Architect of the Relational Blueprint System and ANCHOR Framework. A husband, father, and somatic practitioner, Shane has spent his career helping people heal the relational wounds that keep love just out of reach.

His work is built on the simple premise that we can only have the love our nervous system is prepared to hold. In this five day Blueprint Experience, you'll get the secrets he's been teaching for the last decade about how to expand the capacity of your nervous system so that you're ready to receive the love you've always wanted.

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