Jana had never attracted a secure man in her life. By week four of the program, that changed.
Her story is a testament to what becomes possible when you commit to this work. Watch to hear how breaking lifelong patterns opened the door to the kind of love she thought she’d never have.
From Patterned Pain to Secure Love —
In Just 4 Weeks...
In Just 4 Weeks...
"I think it was in week four, I attracted someone who was secure. For the first time in my life, I attracted someone who was secure!"
-Jana, Program Graduate
Work Live with Shane to Unlock the 6 Core Themes of Conscious Love
Work Live with Shane to Unlock the 6 Core Themes of Conscious Love
Reclaim Your Inner Compass
Reclaim Your Inner Compass
It's time to stop doubting yourself—overanalyzing texts, second-guessing your feelings, and confusing trauma bonds for soulmates.
Deep inside you, there’s a part that already knows and here, we reconnect with that voice. Not the anxious voice shaped by old wounds—but the truthful one. The one that speaks through stillness, clarity, and resonance.
This is where you stop outsourcing your wisdom and start navigating love with grounded clarity.
Unlearn the Past
Unlearn the Past
You weren’t born with these patterns—you built them to survive.
The roles you play, the people you’re drawn to, the way you shrink, chase, or close off… they’re all responses to the pain that taught you love wasn’t safe.
It's time to see the blueprint that's defined your relational experience—and break the hold it has on your mind and emotions. Because love isn’t meant to be survived, it’s meant to be embraced.
Become the Source of Your Own Safety
Become the Source of Your Own Safety
This is why no one’s ever been able to hold you the way you long to be held…
Unresolved childhood pain becomes a lifelong search for someone to see you, choose you, and soothe the ache left behind by the past.
Here, you learn to meet your deepest needs in the only place they could ever truly be met. You learn to hold the parts of yourself that were never held. And from there, love becomes a conscious choice, not a desperate reach.
Access Your True Creative Power
Access Your True Creative Power
There’s a version of you already living the love you dream about…
Not because she chased it, forced it, or earned it—but because she aligned with it.
Here, you'll learn the core principles of energetic embodiment—the approach that attracts what you desire rather than chasing it. Creation isn’t about control, it’s about becoming the cleanest expression of your truth and watching the world around you rise to meet you there.
Embrace Your Wholeness
Embrace Your Wholeness
This isn't about becoming "softer" or "more feminine" it's about mastering the energy that draws a man toward you without losing the edge that challenges him, creates a boundary, or asserts a need.
Rather than picking a side, you dance with all of your energy—your strength and your softness. Because the part of you that melts into love can also call a man forward with unshakable fire.
Rather than picking a side, you dance with all of your energy—your strength and your softness. Because the part of you that melts into love can also call a man forward with unshakable fire.
Surrender to the Infinite
Where you can finally find peace in yourself here and now. You release the pressure to force love, control outcomes, and the heavy weight of constantly bracing for disappointment.
Here, we loosen the grip on our lives and start trusting the deeper intelligence beneath it all. You find the power to feel safe in the unknown, to experience joy without agenda, and to live in an energy that draws love toward you, because you’re no longer carrying the pain that pushes it away.
Here, we loosen the grip on our lives and start trusting the deeper intelligence beneath it all. You find the power to feel safe in the unknown, to experience joy without agenda, and to live in an energy that draws love toward you, because you’re no longer carrying the pain that pushes it away.
Experience 2 Somatic Breathwork Sessions
Experience 2 Somatic Breathwork Sessions
Work Directly with the Energetics of the Body to Clear Emotional Blocks and Embody Your Full Expression
"The breathwork experience blew me away! It took me deeper than years of therapy. I had no idea my body was holding so much, until I let it all go.”
-Nicole, Program Graduate
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Put Down What You've Been Carrying
Put Down What You've Been Carrying
This is your opportunity to let go—fully, unapologetically, and without explanation. Using the power of your breath, you’ll access the stuck emotional energy that’s been living in your body for years.
Rage, grief, heartbreak, shame—whatever’s been buried, protected, or suppressed—finally has a chance to be expressed and cleared. This is your moment to stop holding it all together and start setting yourself free.
Integrate Your Truth Into Every Cell of Your Being
Integrate Your Truth Into Every Cell of Your Being
Now, it’s time to root into who you truly are. This session is about aligning your body, mind, and energy with the love, safety, and truth you’re reclaiming through the program.
Here, you’ll anchor into your worth—not as a concept, but as a felt experience. This is where you stop chasing love and start becoming the space where it naturally flows.
How she became the sexiest woman he'd ever known...
Lulu used to tiptoe around what she really wanted—until she didn’t. When she finally said, “Let’s talk about intentions,” he called it the sexiest thing he’d ever heard.
This is about what happens when a woman stops playing it cool and starts owning her truth. Watch to see how speaking up sparked a whole new dynamic—and a whole new kind of desire.
"He said: I've never had a woman sit down and talk to me about intentions, I thought that was the sexiest thing I've ever heard from a woman before."
-Lulu, Program Graduate
8 Weeks to Attune Your System to Conscious Love
8 Weeks to Attune Your System to Conscious Love
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Attract & Create Love:
Attract & Create Love:
Call in a love that feels like truth. Whether you’re inviting in a new partner or deepening the relationship you’re in, you’ll learn to create lasting connection rooted in intimacy, respect, and soul-deep alignment. Release outdated patterns and step into the kind of love that mirrors the sovereign being you're becoming.
Awaken Your Power:
Awaken Your Power:
Reclaim your voice, your desires, and your magnetism. Connect with your body’s wisdom and speak your truth with unwavering clarity. Become the one who doesn’t chase love—but attracts it by standing fully in your worth. Let yourself be fully seen—and chosen for who you truly are.
Experience Deep Healing:
Experience Deep Healing:
Release the pain that lives in your body. Gently unwind old trauma, soothe attachment wounds, and rewire your nervous system for real connection. Stop chasing, stop shrinking, and open your heart again—with trust, clarity, and unshakable inner safety.
Claim Your Confidence:
Claim Your Confidence:
Walk into every room like you belong—because you do. Empower yourself to create boundaries that protect your peace, honor your desires, and elevate your standards. Step into your worth not just intellectually, but viscerally. Know it. Live it. Lead with it.
Cultivate Emotional Resilience:
Cultivate Emotional Resilience:
Emotions no longer have to overwhelm you. Learn how to move through triggers with grace, meet your inner child with love, and stay grounded no matter what life and love may bring. When you’re emotionally resilient, you don’t just survive your relationships—you thrive inside them.
Balance Your Inner Masculine & Feminine:
Balance Your Inner Masculine & Feminine:
Bring your inner world into sacred union. Embrace the structure and clarity of your masculine, while softening into the intuition and radiance of your feminine. When these two energies harmonize, love flows with more ease, power, and pleasure than ever before.
Receive Personalized Guidance:
Receive Personalized Guidance:
This isn’t just theory—it’s embodied coaching. Get live, high-touch, personalized support in your lived experience and relationship dynamics as they unfold in real time. Know exactly when to lean in, when to hold your ground, and how to express your truth with confidence, clarity, and love.
Be Held in Sacred Community:
Be Held in Sacred Community:
Healing doesn’t happen in isolation—it happens in connection. You’ll be held inside a circle of powerful, like-hearted individuals who see you, support you, and walk beside you every step of the way. Experience what it means to be fully met—in your journey, in your power, and in your truth.
What's Included With Your Membership...
What's Included With Your Membership...
Complete Access to the Inspired Love Curriculum
Complete Access to the Inspired Love Curriculum
Get complete access to the Life-Changing curriculum that our students RAVE about! Learn about somatic healing, vibration, inner-child work, polarity, masculine and feminine energy, manifestation, and more!
Weekly Live Coaching with Shane
Weekly Live Coaching with Shane
Work hands on with Shane in personalized classes held weekly. you can bring your questions and challenges to the group and work through them in a safe and loving environment. All of you is welcome here, this is where the MAGIC happens!
Somatic Breathwork Experiences
Somatic Breathwork Experiences
Using the profound tool of our breath, we create the opportunity to do deep somatic healing as a group. This ancient practice is deeply healing, energizing, and an incredible method to release negative emotions and stagnant energy.
Special Member's Rates on Private Sessions
Special Member's Rates on Private Sessions
Enjoy exclusive discounted rates on private coaching sessions. These one-on-one experiences are tailored to your unique needs, offering personalized guidance, deeper healing, and transformative breakthroughs.
The Foundations of Conscious Love Program
The Foundations of Conscious Love Program
Enjoy unlimited access to the Foundations Course. These 7 profound lessons mark the essential starting place for anyone seeking conscious love. This includes all meditations, sessions slides and the ability to watch and review anytime. It's the perfect way to kickstart your journey!
Inspired Love: Member's Only Podcast
Inspired Love: Member's Only Podcast
Our exclusive members-only podcast, where you’ll find deep insights, practical tools, and inspiring conversations to support your journey. With episodes tailored to your specific questions, growth, and healing, this podcast becomes your on-demand resource for navigating relationships, self-love, and conscious living.
Complete Access to Why Men Fall in Love: The Exclusive Interview Series
Complete Access to Why Men Fall in Love: The Exclusive Interview Series
Ever wondered what actually makes a man fall in love? The answers are within this exclusive interview series. Get the deep, raw, vulnerable answers from men who have made that commitment. Find out how they chose their partner and what's made them stick it out through all these years. 20 compelling interviews included.
Unlimited Community Support
Unlimited Community Support
Become part of our thriving community where you can make friends, inspire and motivate each other, learn and grow together, share stories, and receive support on the journey to love. Plus, our coaches are available in the community to answer questions and offer support!
The value of having a man teach me how to feel safe in my interactions with men...
Katherine shares how healing it was to work with Shane, and what it meant to have her process guided by a present, compassionate man.
Her story is one of reclaiming her value, stepping into emotional mastery, and embracing a level of freedom she didn’t know was possible. In just 8 weeks, everything changed. Watch to witness what happens when a woman is finally met, seen, and supported by the masculine presence.
"I feel so free, and I can't believe it only took 8 weeks! That's nothing in the course of a lifetime."
-Katherine, Program Graduate
The Highly Acclaimed Curriculum
that's Redefining Modern Love
The Highly Acclaimed Curriculum
that's Redefining Modern Love
that's Redefining Modern Love
A personal journey of transformation to heal, claim your worth, and create secure, conscious love.
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The 4 Dimensions of Being
The 4 Dimensions of Being
We begin by exploring the 4 Dimensions of Being and bringing awareness to the true nature of our human experience. As we acknowledge the difference between our higher-mind and our ego-mind we clarify the path toward our healing and wholeness. This paves the way to create partnerships based in wholeness. We explore the basic principles of vibrational law and establish supportive practices to begin embodying the work in an inspiring and effortless way.
Emotional Awareness & Regulation
Emotional Awareness & Regulation
We then explore ourselves as emotional beings and our emotions as the gateway to higher wisdom. We learn to unlock and embrace repressed emotion and become more available in our emotional bodies. You'll learn your personal emotional style and what that means for you in terms of embracing your emotional reality. We practice simple self-soothing exercises and go through a guided somatic experience to unlock repressed aspects of ourselves and begin waking up to a greater experiential reality.
Shadows of the Past
Shadows of the Past
Next we clarify the ways in which our ego uses our past to shape our future. We'll see how this primitive protective mechanism is constantly limiting the greater possibility in our lives in an attempt to prevent us from re-experiencing the pain of the past. By identifying the life-defining experiences that set the process in motion and understanding the patterns of fear that have shaped our relationships, reactions, feelings, and behaviors. We'll understand how to get free of these limiting patterns and create abundant Love in our future.
Healing Guilt & Shame:
Healing Guilt & Shame:
In the deepest work of the program, we begin to identify the complex network of guilt and shame that has been a guiding, unconscious influence in our lives. We'll finally recognize and understand the core blockages that have been limiting our ability to create and sustain conscious love. Through a profound guided somatic experience, we identify where we carry shame in our bodies and set ourselves free from it's grip. This sets the stage for a completely new future in life and love.
The Inner-Child Experience
The Inner-Child Experience
Here we cultivate a deep awareness of our wounded inner-child, the vulnerable part of ourselves that drives our actions in relationships, leading us to chase love in ways that ultimately leave us feeling empty. As we become more sensitive to its cries for attention and affection, we learn a powerful process of reparenting that allows us to soothe and nurture this inner part of ourselves, meeting these needs from within rather than seeking external sources for validation.
The Healed Masculine & Feminine
The Healed Masculine & Feminine
Next we delve into the polarity of masculine and feminine energy, guiding you to find a healthy internal balance and create conscious, balanced partnerships. By deepening your understanding of these energies, you’ll gain self-awareness, foster harmony within, and strengthen intimacy in your relationships. Unlock the keys to enhancing connection, passion, and presence, empowering you to experience deeper, more balanced relationships with both yourself and in partnership.
Naming Your Shadow Blueprint
As we prepare to bring this work into the real world, we name the core pattern that has shaped your relational experience. This is your shadow blueprint—the unconscious relational strategy you’ve used to survive love. This Blueprint is rooted deeper than any attachment style and is uniquely personal to you. In this lesson, you’ll identify the pattern that’s been running the show and create a personalized set of practices to heal it. You’ll walk away with a personal roadmap to navigate triggers, repair disconnection, and anchor into the kind of connection you’ve always longed for.
Wholeness in Conscious Love
Wholeness in Conscious Love
In our final lesson, we focus on the practical steps to attract and create a love rooted in wholeness, exploring the transformative power of authenticity and vulnerability in calling forth a love that deeply resonates in your soul. By releasing all harmful patterns that lead to unfulfilling relationships and aligning with your whole self, you’ll learn to attract and nurture a partnership that thrives on mutual respect, appreciation, connection, and growth.
Real Women. Real Results.
Real Women. Real Results.
Take a look inside the Breakthrough Stories of these amazing ladies...
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Colleen
"I felt like I was in a group of women that were super ready to learn and grow together. Listening to each other's stories was heart opening and softened my experience because it made me feel less alone in my exploration."
Olga
"I met a beautiful man who is healthy and secure within himself. I feel more secure in myself than I've ever felt and I can certainly say that without this program, I wouldn't have been able to show up this way."
Janniche
"The way I feel about myself has changed. I have a better relationship with myself, I feel more confident, and I'm presenting myself in the world in a totally different way that just hasn't been available for me with any other work I've done."
Rommy
"Now my life is totally different and I attract amazing guys that are really secure, super loving, and the best part for me is that I actually love myself."
Rochelle
“It still surprises me that he’s a man! How can he have this much insight into women—how we tick, how we think, and what we want? It’s opened my eyes to the reality that there are men who can do that. And I’m evolving to the place where I’ll be able to call that man in for me.”
What our students love most about the program!
I truly enjoyed this program. It has significantly helped me in my journey of self love, self understanding, and self growth. Thank you so much Shane. You have been such an inspiration for me and a source of wisdom. You have an amazing way of explaining things that helps everything make sense. I appreciate you.
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Michelle
I love the way Shane presents, he is truly authentic, honest, open and genuinely cares. I think this program was excellent, I can not thank you enough for the changes that have taken place in my life.
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Janice
The active work and tangible practices shared that can be used! I felt like everything was very real and honest and helpful. From the meditations to the breath work, I was able to have many realizations that helped me make sense of myself better and heal. I had to wake up at 4:30 am haha but it was worth it!
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Sanjana
There were so many aspects I enjoyed, the various tools were so helpful -- the materials provided -- the topics covered -- I don't feel anything was overlooked -- and I think the honesty and sincerity and empathy from Shane was incredible
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Phyllis
Section 3 where we started getting into spirituality, breathwork, and energetic work. Shane - I also really appreciated the consistency of your presence and groundedness.
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Chandni
I really learned a lot from Shane and the participants as well. I especially enjoyed the coaching sessions. I think that Shane is a great teacher/coach and it is apparent that he is both committed to this program and helping others to find the love we deserve.
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Dena
The group connection, Shane's leadership, so many tools / exercises / experiences. It exceeded my expectations and went deep. I love how deep it went. Shane you are an angel. And so accommodating and easy to talk to. Thank you.
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Rula
I really enjoyed learning about the inner child work, understanding needing versus wanting and breaking down energy levels and seeing what those look like in real life. Thank you for everything!
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Shannon
The content, meditation, learning so much about myself, ego, learning from others, and understanding my past and how it shapes my concept of love. Understanding why I do what I have done and learning to date.
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Jennie
A Few of Our Success Stories
A Few of Our Success Stories
Kayayetta Dukes
Married Since 2019
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"I am now married to the most incredible man! I began this process guarded from years of disappointment but I did it because I wanted to find Love and that's exactly what I found!"
Michele Karl
Married Since 2022
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"I was able to create the most amazing, awakened relationship with a man who is all-in. Now we travel the world and live our dreams together. This is my dream come true!"
Andrea Fisher
Engaged in 2023
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"I knew he was a committed man since we met. He was always clear, direct and intentional with me. I'm so grateful to have a conscious relationship for the first time in my life!"
About Your Coach
About Your Coach
Shane Kohler is the Co-Creator of The Living Relationship, founder & host of The Conscious Love Show Podcast, and the architect & designer behind the Inspired Love Program.
Passionate about love for as long as he can remember, Shane has always known his calling was to help create more love in the world. With over a decade long background in personal transformation and spiritual development, Shane decided to direct his skills toward teaching how to manifest love after meeting the love of his life Fatima, and proposing to her in 2018. Since then, he has grown The Living Relationship to a network reaching over 1,000,000 people monthly, created a top 10% podcast with thousands of monthly listeners, and opened the Inspired Love Program to share his processes with the world.
Shane has been trained by some of the masters in transformational work. He's traveled the world delivering transformational trainings and seminars and has personally coached 1000's of people. He has been a devoted student of A Course in Miracles for over 10 years and the Inspired Love Program is the culmination of over a decade of study. In this program, he takes all the knowledge he's gained and applies it to the process of consciously creating a partnership that is meant to last. If you're looking for a program that leaves nothing out and prepares you for love in the realest possible way, the Inspired Love Program is what you're looking for.
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